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The 'Secret Sauce' to Winning Bidding Wars in Today's Market: 5 Power Moves You Can't Afford to Miss

5 Expert Tips to Win Bidding Wars in 2024’s Real Estate Market

Let’s be REal: trying to buy a home in a hot market can feel like an episode of Survivor. You think you’ve found the one, and before you know it, you’re thrown into a wild bidding war, competing against buyers who are ready to throw down. But don’t worry—I’ve got the secret sauce to help you win this game.

Here are five power moves to win that next bidding war and snag your dream home without losing your cool:

1. Know Your Limits and Love Them: It’s easy to get swept up in the excitement of a bidding war, and I’ve seen buyers go in guns blazing, offering up everything and then some, just to beat the competition. Don’t do it! You have to go into that offer with a solid budget that feels right to you and stick to it. This means taking a hard look at your finances ahead of time and setting a ceiling price that you won’t go beyond—even if your dream home is on the line.

Why It Matters: Overbidding not only puts you at risk of overextending your budget, but it can also cause appraisal issues down the line. If the home doesn’t appraise at the agreed-upon price, you might end up having to bring more cash to the table or renegotiate terms with the seller. By knowing your limits, you avoid getting financially stretched too thin and keep your future self (and your wallet) happy.

2. Get Pre-Approved, Not Just Pre-Qualified: Think of pre-qualification as window shopping and pre-approval as buying. Pre-approval is a written commitment from a lender, showing sellers that your financing is as good as cash in hand. This gives your offer a lot more weight in a competitive situation. A pre-qualification letter is nice, but it’s not going to make you stand out in a crowd.

Why It Matters: Sellers want to know that you’re serious and that there won’t be hiccups when it’s time to close the deal. By getting pre-approved, you’re telling them, “Hey, I’ve got the funds, and I’m ready to roll.” It gives them peace of mind and makes your offer shine a little brighter in their eyes.

3. Sweeten the Deal (Without Overpaying): You might think that the highest bid always wins, but that’s not always the case. Sellers care about more than just dollar signs. If you can’t up your offer price, there are other ways to stand out. Offer flexible terms, like a quicker or more convenient closing date. Waiving some minor contingencies or showing flexibility on inspection timelines can also make your offer more appealing without affecting your bottom line.

Why It Matters: Sellers have lives too. They’re not just looking at numbers—they want a smooth transaction with minimal headaches. Maybe they need more time to move out, or maybe a quicker closing is what they’re after. It’s all about finding out what they really need and positioning yourself as the buyer who’s ready to make their life easier.

4. Work with a Pro Who Knows How to Strategize (That’s Me!): Let’s face it—there’s more to winning a bidding war than simply tossing a number at the wall and hoping it sticks. A good agent is like your coach in the middle of a game. I know when to push, when to pull back, and how to make your offer irresistible. Plus, I have insider knowledge about what sellers in our market are looking for and how to give them exactly that.

Why It Matters:  This is where my experience and negotiation chops come into play. I’ve helped countless clients win bidding wars by digging into the seller’s motivation and tailoring the offer to meet their needs. And when things get competitive, you want someone in your corner who knows how to turn up the heat without letting things boil over. Teamwork makes the dream work!

5. Stay Calm, Stay Cool, and Stay Confident: Bidding wars can feel like chaos, but this isn’t the time to panic. Your offer strategy is in place for a reason—trust it. Lean on your agent’s experience, take a breath, and don’t let emotions drive your decisions. If it doesn’t work out, don’t worry—there are always more opportunities, and the right home will find you.

Why It Matters: I can’t stress this enough: bidding wars are a roller coaster. You’ll experience excitement, anxiety, and maybe even a little frustration. But if you can stay calm, confident, and keep your eyes on the prize, you’re going to come out on top in the end. And if the deal falls through? There’s always a Plan B, C, and D—I’m here to make sure you have options. 

Until next week…. ✌️

Your Trusted Real Estate Advisor,
Evie DeJesus



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